Seems obvious, doesn’t it? Of course we live and love on purpose! Ah, but do we really? How many of your choices are conscious and deliberate? Now, if you’re hungry and want a hamburger and go get one, that’s deliberate and on purpose. But what about on the emotional side of things? Do you really know why you do what you do?
A lot of times, we act–and react–as defense mechanisms. We want to avoid a pain of some kind or the perceived potential for it. And we rarely consciously recognize we’re doing it And that is never more true than navigating the murky waters of relationships. That’s what this site–and the book it is building toward–is about. If we truly want to have healthy and harmonious relationships, we have to figure out why we don’t. It’s not as complicated as we usually make it, but it does take deliberate effort. Yes, you have to do things on purpose!
There’s a great freedom and relief from making conscious choices to get what you want rather than scrambling to find some way to not feel that twisting in your gut over whether someone wants you or not.
“Does life just seem to “happen” to you? Make a list of the things you do on purpose—then add to the list.” – Paula Renaye
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